This
post secret is very much actuate to how I feel about my generation. The
number might be a tad bit higher on my part though. I really don't
understand anything that teens and young adults do and it drives me
crazy. Yesterday while at work a co-worker, who just turned 18, asked
another for a cigarette. It just made me sick to my stomach. Here are a
list of things I can't stand about my/our generation, starting with
smoking:
- Smoking: What is the
point? Why must you do it at a young age or at all? I understand that it
can be a stress reliever but most of the teens who smoke aren't even
stressed. Do you like taking years off of your life? Do you enjoy
looking all old too early? I just don't understand. Even weed. People
have told me "the high is like no other" and blah blah blah. "It makes
you feel good." I'm sorry but I have other ways of feeling good. Weed
may not be a drug to some people, but an "herb" or whatever but it's
still killing brain cells and causing damage to your lungs. Whhhyyyy??
Drinking:
Before I start I would like to state that I used to drink and that
whatever I'm about to say isn't going to be hypocritical because I am
certainly getting on myself. Once again, what's the point of drinking??
In 2008, three of my friends had died (January, September, &
October) so that whole year I was messed up. When the second friend
died, I couldn't take the pain so I started drinking to numb it; in
October it just got worse. I can't even remember what happened some
nights because it was that bad. I found myself in situations that I
couldn't get out of but I could have prevented them by coping with my
trauma better.And because of one major incident that occurred I told
myself I would never drink again. I've only had a few sips over the past
year or so but never ever will I get drunk. Drinking only made my
situation worse. And I wish other kids knew the dangers of drinking
underage. Just because all the rappers talk about it in their songs and
talk about all the glitz and glamor of drinking, there's still really no
point. It's just like smoking. Ughhhh. I hate this topic. Moving on....
Gangs:
GANGS HAVE GOT TO BE THE MOST STUPID THING KNOWN TO MAN!! There are a
poop-load of stupid things on this earth and gangs are at the top of my
list. Gangs are pointless and cause unnecessary drama between people.
Who cares if he's wearing what color?!?! I bet if you sat down and
talked to the guy he'd be pretty cool. But NOOOO they all get wrapped up
in being "apart" of something that they don't care. Why can't we all
just be the same people? I will never understand this at all and it
hurts my heart to the fullest.
Clothes/shoes/jewelry/cars:
Material things are so important to this generation and it's
ridiculous. I'm done here. I just really wish people would understand
it's not about what you have but who you are.
Cursing/cussing:
Once again, I'm slightly guilty of this one. Cussing is stupid and
that's why I've been trying to stop. It's completely ignorant and shows
lack of vocabulary to express how we feel about someone or something,
even reactions to situations. BUT my problem comes in where a group of
kids are talking and every other word is a cuss word, yet there's an
adult standing two feet away. I find that completely disrespectful and
it irritates me how young people don't take that into consideration. I
understand you're having a good time with your friends but at the moment
in time, must you use profanity and so loud? Thats' my number one thing
on this topic, please don't cuss around adults. Please.
Sex:
I should probably do some explaining on this one too before I get
started. I have had sex. Only with two people because I loved them.
I like sex but I don't go around having it willy nilly just because I
like it. I am a christian and to some degree don't believe in sex before
marriage BUT I also don't believe marriage is a couple rings and a
piece of paper. I have only had sex because I felt that emotional
connection. I have been celibate for about nine months because I'm
actually trying to wait until I have a ring and sign the lil paper
because it's more stable that way. My problem with teens and sex is that
it's no longer a sacred thing between two lovers, it's turned into
something vulgar. Just because you get a lil horny doesn't mean have sex
with any and everybody.
Ughhhh! I
don't even know what else to say anymore. This post has drained me out.
you arent the only one...
ReplyDeletei believe that "our generation" lacks individuality and original thought. we quest to be accepted by others than self satisfaction from within. Too many people living lies...but hey...i can only control myself
Girl are you not alone . Everyday I wonder what goes on in the minds of our generation . But I dont want to even understand them because then I may have to question my own sanity . Dont get me wrong I drink on occcasions but it does not rule my life . & like the person said before me our generation does lack individuality it is very sad .
ReplyDeleteGirl! I agree with you on everything you said! But I really really feel you on the Gangs and Sex. Ugh they both just don't make sense to me. Like what is the point of gangs? Bc I really don't know, nor do I think there is a point. I have even had a friend/gang member "explain" and I still think it's stupid... don't get me started on sex. SMH.
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